elysiangirl: (double barrell)
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i may not have my timeline right, or all the details spot on, but i know the jist of it is true correct.


  • her boyfriend dies in a car accident.

  • she had to "hide", journal-wise, from another group of friends with whom she had a falling out. they all decided they would band together and leave her out in the cold. hmmm...wonder if she's done this act before...

  • her father hits her mother.

  • her mother, shortly thereafter, dies.

  • she emails me with a 108, plus or minus, degree fever that she has for three days. incoherent emails that freak me out as they were designed to do. she passes out and is taken to the hospital in a big dramatic moment, is found passed out in a pool of blood reaching for her phone by her friend who had been out of town. and the only way we knew about it was from a post by this "friend" in her journal. and then a post by her brother. neither of whom were ljer's, yet they seemed to know their way around. there were other suspicious things about this but my memory sucks, as y'all know.

  • she is diagnosed with MS. in and out of wheelchairs, crutches, etc.

  • her father, from whom she is estranged, dies.

  • she is beat up by muggers in the process of trying to help an old lady not get pursesnatched.

  • she is stabbed in court.

  • she is duped by her long-distance lesbian lover, finding out he is a man.

  • and, i had never heard this from her, lung cancer.


all this and she's only 24. and with the exception of her boyfriend dying and her friends dropping her, all this in the past two years, tops.

SICK.

Date: 2004-06-13 08:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kodakrome.livejournal.com
so sick..

i can't believe it.

Date: 2004-06-13 09:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elysiangirl.livejournal.com
why, though? that's my question. we would have loved her and cared for her just as much if she had been honest, you know?

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Date: 2004-06-13 09:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] grubber.livejournal.com
who is this chick?

Date: 2004-06-13 09:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elysiangirl.livejournal.com
figured i shouldn't link...

movingfoward...among other aliases.

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Date: 2004-06-13 09:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 68024.livejournal.com
Yeah, sick, as in mentally ill perhaps???

Most of those things I haven't heard before.. what about her work as a lawyer? The apartment she was buying/bought where they forgot to put in the sink or something? Is any of it true??

Date: 2004-06-13 09:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elysiangirl.livejournal.com
no idea, honey.

makes you wonder doesn't it?

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Date: 2004-06-15 03:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kay.livejournal.com
She was no lawyer .. she was a notary trainee, so to speak. I doubt she's ever seen a courtroom from the inside. No apartment either ... no pretty cherrywood kitchen, nada. Literally everything was a lie. Every wirtten and spoken word.

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Date: 2004-06-13 09:55 am (UTC)
mellusions: (Default)
From: [personal profile] mellusions
I just rewrote and rewrote this comment but nothing is adequate. It's fucked up.

Date: 2004-06-13 10:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elysiangirl.livejournal.com
i'm flabberghasted, really.

Date: 2004-06-13 10:24 pm (UTC)

Date: 2004-06-13 11:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stephaniekaye.livejournal.com
you know, the strange part abotu all her deception is that she didnt hide from us.
she went to atlanta.. she went to toronto..
she met all of us!!!!!

Date: 2004-06-13 11:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kodakrome.livejournal.com
i never met her.. but i'm wondering.

i mean, did she talk about her 'so called' life to you all when she did meet you?

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Date: 2004-06-13 11:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aetra.livejournal.com
Damn. I'm sorry to hear about this. It's imossible to comprehend WHY people do such things. Just have to believe it is some kind of mental illness, because any sane person would KNOW they would eventually get caught. Still doesn't make it easy to deal with.

Date: 2004-06-14 06:02 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elysiangirl.livejournal.com
she has to be sick. i mean, she was outraged whenever she heard of other people doing similar things.

Re: I figured...

Date: 2004-06-13 12:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nishar.livejournal.com
I figured something was off with her shortly after I first meet 'Crazy-lady'. She and the guy she was staying with hatched this nutty scheme were she claimed he 'attacked' her. That one blew up in her face though.
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Date: 2004-06-13 02:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] koapthesql.livejournal.com
god...doesn't it seem like when you look at the group pictures and what not now...kinda makes you feel like there's a big white elephant in the room?

i feel pretty bad actually for [livejournal.com profile] princessblondie, who at least in my observation over the last year or 2, has been the closest with her.

i dunno. in my 10 years of being on the internet. why be someone you're not, yanno? it makes no sense to me. so yes. i really am this sick and twisted, dammit.

Date: 2004-06-13 10:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elysiangirl.livejournal.com
as am i. we are sick and twisted but in a good way.
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Date: 2004-06-13 10:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elysiangirl.livejournal.com
sadly enough, i'm no longer surprised by anything.

ok, maybe a little.

Date: 2004-06-13 06:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tigerkitty.livejournal.com
I guess I missed a lot this week, but I guess I've gotten the gist of what happened.

You wanna get together next week? Coffee, or dinner, or drinks or something? This week is hectic, a funeral tomorrow, late nights wednesday and thursday. Tuesday I'm gonna go work out but probably not until 9ish.

One way or another, I WILL see you in the month of June. Must!

Date: 2004-06-13 10:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elysiangirl.livejournal.com
my monday, wednesday and thursday nights are filled. but! you could come to chez lulu on a wednesday at 7 and watch the bellydancink! i won't be performing, but we can spend time together AND get to see dancing!

Re: hmmm.

Date: 2004-06-13 07:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] scarletdog.livejournal.com
Well, you can't win them all I guess.

Re: hmmm.

Date: 2004-06-13 10:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elysiangirl.livejournal.com
i guess.

why do i attract this crap?

oy.

Date: 2004-06-14 07:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kadi.livejournal.com
Ummmm, wow. This is a big ole surprise. Did she admit to the lies? Who figured everything out? Damn, WHAT'D I MISS?

I'm gullible. Yep.

Date: 2004-06-14 07:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elysiangirl.livejournal.com
we all are.

she has admitted nothing to me. i have heard nothing from her at all since this went down. i will not be contacting her. but apparently she admitted to the lies to jerry.

kayleighb figured everything out, you can read the post in her journal.

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Date: 2004-06-14 08:27 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] wolffe
well, you know my theories about this started LONG ago. I'm glad I dropped her when I did now.

Date: 2004-06-14 08:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elysiangirl.livejournal.com
as did mine, but like i said, i knew i'd feel better about myself if i believed her and it wasn't true, than i would if i hadn't and it was true.

but it is nice to confirm that perhaps my instincts aren't as effed up as i thought...

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Date: 2004-06-14 11:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] againsthestream.livejournal.com
go here--->
http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/articles/chronic/faking.html

Date: 2004-06-14 11:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elysiangirl.livejournal.com
very appropro and interesting.

geez the internet is a strange place...

Date: 2004-06-14 02:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shudder2think.livejournal.com
wow, i have no idea what any of this is about, but i just did that lj comment thing, and you were one of the top ones, and i wanted to thank you and give you a squishy hug :-D

Date: 2004-06-15 09:26 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elysiangirl.livejournal.com
yay! i love squishy hugs! and i love the fact that my commenting efforts pay off!

wheeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

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Date: 2004-06-14 02:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] divinemrsm.livejournal.com
Hol-lee eff-you-see-kay.

There for about a year, right before I tuned out of LJ, we IM'd and messaged all the time (but god forgive me for saying she was incessant and annoying). Now I don't feel bad about feeling that way toward her.

I'm shocked! =:O

Date: 2004-06-15 09:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elysiangirl.livejournal.com
i'm shocked, too. but i don't know why, nothing on lj should surprise me, yeah?

Date: 2004-06-14 04:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ex-ly656.livejournal.com
wow..
i'm shocked..
and to think i felt bad cause i wasnt there for her enough :(

Date: 2004-06-15 09:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elysiangirl.livejournal.com
i know.
i don't get it, how can someone take advantage of loving people like that?

oh yeah, we're perfect targets and they're self-serving.

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Date: 2004-06-15 03:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kay.livejournal.com
The list goes on from there for me ... to name a few her arm was officially declared 'dead' because of the MS, her leg was next to go. Wheelchair issues ... she bought a house and they tries to screw her over .. her brother was constantly fighting with her and only cared for his 18 y/o girlfriend he knocked up. Her father was dead, too, after telling her all her life how he didn't want her. The radiation therapy she got for the cancer that didn't work, to others she also included chemo therapy, she could not with me because I would have noticed no hair loss. This list is endless ...

Date: 2004-06-15 06:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elysiangirl.livejournal.com
i had gotten all those stories, too, except for the cancer and everything cancer related...

why?!?!? i just don't get it...

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